The Vibe And Shine

Have you ever been in a position in life where you really wanted something, and as you went to pick it up and take it, someone else arrived and announced they wanted it too? What did you do? I know I have been 'guilty' of being 'considerate' and letting the other person have it instead of me because I wanted to be nice. But then I didn't have the thing and I know, somewhere deep inside me, I believed that person deserved it more than me. It was only when I got angry with someone farting in front of me and it was smelly, after I had repeatedly asked them not to do that that I had my breakthrough epiphany on it: Why are some people okay with me being uncomfortable just so they can be comfortable? Why can't that person exercise some manners and go for a walk to unleash the gaseous vomit ball from their ass? Yes, farting is natural, but you don't have to rub it in people's faces. Where is the consideration of others? In that instance it was nowh...

With all this talk about manifestation, creating the life you want, and living in abundance, I thought I'd break down what it means to actually live in abundance. Some would think it's having loads of money. While that is one form of abundance, it's not the only form. To me, living in abundance is being able to do what you want and need to do when you want and need to do it. When you find yourself in alignment with life and living in the flow of life, abundance flows in through many avenues. Having the means to go to the store to buy the food you require to feed yourself provides a sense of security and stability, which can give you peace of mind versus living in survival mode all the time wondering where your next meal is going to come from. Yet, while living in flow and living in alignment, even if you don't have the money to buy food yourself, it always works out and somehow, someway, you eat. I've had my fair share of nights starving. I'm sp...

Next on the list of 'focused' energies involved in the manifestation process is emotion, or e-motion (energy in motion). We're first going to look at the spectrum of emotional frequencies, how to get yourself into a higher frequency from a lower frequency, and what happens when you create shifts within so that you vibrate from the higher emotional frequencies longer and longer each time. It goes without saying that each human on this planet experiences reasonable and rational emotional pain and suffering at one point or another. This post is not to say you shouldn't allow yourself to feel the emotions when shit happens and only strive to live in the 'light'. There is growth through pain, and emotional pain isn't always a punishment, just like emotional pleasure isn't always a reward. For example, grief is natural when a loved one is lost. When looked at from a broader perspective, grief is the process of emotionally detaching and moving on fr...

Photo by: David John Long First up on the list of 'focused energies' involved in the manifestation creation process is 'thought', and how to harness it and direct it intentionally to bring in what you want. Let me be abundantly clear: Each and every human being has the ability to create physical change in their life. It's not a gift bestowed upon life's select favourites. Life has no favourites. Life is truly what we make of it, and everything that comes into our reality is an external reflection of what is going on internally within us. Everything. As gnarly and nasty as it gets. Somewhere inside us we are at war within ourselves over something we've interpreted as a 'wrong' or 'bad' experience. When we've judged an external event as good or bad, we create a belief system around it, and our beliefs are thoughts, which is what creates the world around us. We need to create new beliefs to replace the negative self-limiting...

Photo by: Monique Grobler. Learn How To Manifest Keen to learn the exact steps for successful manifestation every time? Continuing on from my science posts, where I reported to you that quantum-physics has scientifically proven we create our realities using our observation and attention (and also by learning to cultivate and harness our emotions to influence the energy field in and around all things of this world) in this post, I will break down what our 'observation' is. We also look at why our observation, or attention, makes such a difference when it comes to the manifestation of our world around us. What is our observation? And why is it important for manifestation? Well, we have eyes, nose, skin, mouth and ears... but without our 'consciousness', there is no receiving 'observer' to translate and choose how we experience the sensory inputs such as enticing smells, comforting tactile textures, decadent tastes, music that sings to our heart, or breatht...

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Photo By: Monique Grobler. Seriously. I can't stress the importance of self love enough when it comes to manifestation . It is your primary tool in improving your wellbeing and your life. When you love yourself, truly, not from a place of ego, but a place of self worth and care, your life will improve infinitely. Self love and respect sets the bar for the treatment you accept from others. If you're not treating yourself well, you're not going to feel worthy of being treated well by the outside world. And the manifestation is going to reflect in the outside world, since the outside world is a reflection of your inside world. Our healing and journey to our best life begins with ourselves, within. What does self love look like?   Basically: You need to care for yourself in the same way you would care for a child. You ensure the child gets adequate amounts of healthy food, fresh air, stimulation, rest, love and attention. Make healthy and loving choices for yourself ...